Out of the Attic: A Caregiver’s Rage and Jane Eyre

Out of the Attic: A Caregiver’s Rage and Jane Eyre

Tired and on edge, I was worried by rumblings from my husband Brad’s doctors that they might send him home soon. At the time of the bat incident, he had been hospitalized for nearly four months in the wake of a stem cell transplant. The transplant saved his life from...
Don’t Tell a Caregiver to Stay Positive. Here’s How to Help Instead

Don’t Tell a Caregiver to Stay Positive. Here’s How to Help Instead

My husband had been in the hospital, critically ill, for weeks one day when I broke down in tears during a workout. Concerned gym buddies consoled me and someone said, “You’ve got to stay positive!” “Do I, though?” I wanted to ask. I was urged to stay positive a lot...