Adult children of narcissists often find independence by separating out and spending limited time with their parents. But, as parents start to age and need support, the equation changes. Suddenly you may be expected to support them and may find yourself in the midst of an emotional storm.

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Setting boundaries is the single best way to protect yourself with narcissistic parents. Without solid boundaries, you risk getting constantly thrown around emotionally and perhaps even losing your sense of yourself.

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