It doesn't rhyme with purpose But that's what it is Or inspiration But that, too You've lost it....
A simple loss
by Guest Author | Jun 30, 2022 | Caring for a Romantic Partner, Finding Meaning, Journaling | 0 Comments
Category: Caring for a Romantic Partner
A simple loss
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