She said she had something to tell me but that she was afraid. I reached for her trembling hand,...
Widow’s Peak
by External Article | Aug 7, 2022 | After Caregiving, Caring for a Romantic Partner, Death & Dying | 0 Comments
Category: After Caregiving
Caregiving roles don’t stay the same for long. Our responsibilities as a caregiver may come to an end due to death, estrangement, changed care arrangements, or recovery. Even after the official end of caregiving, there is often a significant amount of work for us to do coordinating care, filing paperwork, and managing an estate.
Widow’s Peak
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