Ask Olive: He Left Me Hanging When I Needed Someone the Most
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So many caregivers have experienced what the letter writer asks about: we turn to our closest friend in a moment of need. We share our vulnerabilities with them. We’re open about how difficult caregiving and grief and loss can be.

And they ghost us.

Do we chase them? Do we give up on friendships? Do we learn to keep our pain to ourselves? Olive provides wisdom on this painful situation.

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